We have sex more for connection than for procreation or pleasure.
Tuesday, December 29, 2015
Why Do We Have Sex?
Tuesday, November 24, 2015
What's the average penis size and do women really care?
By Laura Mitchell / Published 23rd November 2015
The length of your manhood isn't as important as you think it is
Penis size is a huge topic of anxiety for a lot of men. And if you feel you're lacking in the trouser department it can affect your confidence – which can then have a negative affect on your love life.
But how big is 'normal' and do women really care about the size of your package? Here, we reveal the answers to all your burning questions.
Whether your well-endowed or lacking in the trouser department, there are sex position
. WHAT IS AVERAGE?
Penises come in all shapes and sizes and there really isn't such thing as 'normal', but a recent study has revealed the average todger size.
The mean length of the erect penis is about 5.2 inches (13.2cm) in length and 4.6 inches (11.7cm) in circumference.
And at normal temperatures a non-erect penis usually measures 3.6 inches (9.1cm) from tip to base and 3.7 (9.3cm) inches in circumference.
Most men fall into the 'normal' range, however some men suffer from a micropenis condition. This is defined as 2.5 inches or less when fully erect.
At the other end of the spectrum is someone like Jonah Falcon, the man who currently holds the record for the largest penis.
His huge dong measures 13.5 inches erect, making it extremely difficult if not impossible to have penetrative sex.
*** How many calories a woman burns giving oral sex will shock you ***
2. WHAT SIZE DO WOMEN PREFER?
Unfortunately for most men, women prefer a bigger-than-average schlong, according to research by the University of California Los Angeles and the University of New Mexico.
The study revealed that women prefer a penis that is 6.3 inches long with a 4.8 inch girth for long-term relationships.
And when it comes to one night stands they want a whopping 6.4 inches in length and a 5 inch circumference.
The research lead by Dr Nicole Prause, asked 75 female participants to choose which size and shape they preferred.
They used 100 plastic 3D-printed phalluses to conduct the research and unfortunately for the average Joe it seems women are expecting a lot.
GETTY SEX: Unfortunately for the average Joe, women prefer a 6-inch schlong
3. DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER?
The information above may have left you in a state of panic, but fear not – size isn't as important as you might think.
In fact, the largest and most comprehensive study of men and women’s reasons to have sex, found that penis size wasn't even mentioned.
The study identified 237 different motivating factors including facial attractiveness, eyes, and general attraction – but schlong size didn't get a look in.
Another recent study asked women to rank in order seven penis attributes. Girth was ranked fourth and length sixth.
The top three were general appearance, pubic hair appearance, and penile skin. In other words, even when forced to choose amongst a set of penis features, size didn’t really matter that much to the women in the study.
4. DOES HER SATISFACTION DEPEND ON YOUR SIZE?
There is no real evidence that a bigger penis means more pleasure. Firstly, most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation anyway, in which case size doesn't matter.
Also, the G-spot is located just 2 inches into the vagina on the front wall. So as long as you've got a few inches you should be able to pleasure her in this way too.
The reality is size really doesn't matter. Whether your well-endowed or lacking in the trouser department, there are sex positions that can work for any size or shape.
The length of your manhood isn't as important as you think it is
Penis size is a huge topic of anxiety for a lot of men. And if you feel you're lacking in the trouser department it can affect your confidence – which can then have a negative affect on your love life.
But how big is 'normal' and do women really care about the size of your package? Here, we reveal the answers to all your burning questions.
Whether your well-endowed or lacking in the trouser department, there are sex position. WHAT IS AVERAGE?
Penises come in all shapes and sizes and there really isn't such thing as 'normal', but a recent study has revealed the average todger size.
The mean length of the erect penis is about 5.2 inches (13.2cm) in length and 4.6 inches (11.7cm) in circumference.
And at normal temperatures a non-erect penis usually measures 3.6 inches (9.1cm) from tip to base and 3.7 (9.3cm) inches in circumference.
Most men fall into the 'normal' range, however some men suffer from a micropenis condition. This is defined as 2.5 inches or less when fully erect.
At the other end of the spectrum is someone like Jonah Falcon, the man who currently holds the record for the largest penis.
His huge dong measures 13.5 inches erect, making it extremely difficult if not impossible to have penetrative sex.
*** How many calories a woman burns giving oral sex will shock you ***
2. WHAT SIZE DO WOMEN PREFER?
Unfortunately for most men, women prefer a bigger-than-average schlong, according to research by the University of California Los Angeles and the University of New Mexico.
The study revealed that women prefer a penis that is 6.3 inches long with a 4.8 inch girth for long-term relationships.
And when it comes to one night stands they want a whopping 6.4 inches in length and a 5 inch circumference.
The research lead by Dr Nicole Prause, asked 75 female participants to choose which size and shape they preferred.
They used 100 plastic 3D-printed phalluses to conduct the research and unfortunately for the average Joe it seems women are expecting a lot.
GETTY SEX: Unfortunately for the average Joe, women prefer a 6-inch schlong 3. DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER?
The information above may have left you in a state of panic, but fear not – size isn't as important as you might think.
In fact, the largest and most comprehensive study of men and women’s reasons to have sex, found that penis size wasn't even mentioned.
The study identified 237 different motivating factors including facial attractiveness, eyes, and general attraction – but schlong size didn't get a look in.
Another recent study asked women to rank in order seven penis attributes. Girth was ranked fourth and length sixth.
The top three were general appearance, pubic hair appearance, and penile skin. In other words, even when forced to choose amongst a set of penis features, size didn’t really matter that much to the women in the study.
4. DOES HER SATISFACTION DEPEND ON YOUR SIZE?
There is no real evidence that a bigger penis means more pleasure. Firstly, most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation anyway, in which case size doesn't matter.
Also, the G-spot is located just 2 inches into the vagina on the front wall. So as long as you've got a few inches you should be able to pleasure her in this way too.
The reality is size really doesn't matter. Whether your well-endowed or lacking in the trouser department, there are sex positions that can work for any size or shape.
Miley Cyrus wears fake breasts, prosthetic penis in outrageous Dead Petz tour
This that penis envy I see!
Plastic prop: Miley loves performing with inflatables in her shows
If anyone was going to have an gallery of themselves with various blow-up inflatables it was always going to be Miley Cyrus.
Miley has hit the headlines again after dancing with an inflatable penis on the Chicago leg of her Bangerz tour.
In a flesh flashing, barely-there sequin leotard, Miley gyrated around the stage with the blow-up willy before finally pressing it against her crotch as the inflatable grinned manically at the audience. Yes, the penis had a face.
And of course, what Miley moment would be complete without her sticking out her tongue as she played with her new plastic toy?
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Plastic prop: Miley loves performing with inflatables in her shows
If anyone was going to have an gallery of themselves with various blow-up inflatables it was always going to be Miley Cyrus.
Miley has hit the headlines again after dancing with an inflatable penis on the Chicago leg of her Bangerz tour.
In a flesh flashing, barely-there sequin leotard, Miley gyrated around the stage with the blow-up willy before finally pressing it against her crotch as the inflatable grinned manically at the audience. Yes, the penis had a face.
And of course, what Miley moment would be complete without her sticking out her tongue as she played with her new plastic toy?
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Monday, November 9, 2015
Nut up or shut up: Handful of walnuts can increase sperm count
All men out there, you’ll want to eat walnuts everyday now. Researchers say the simple way to boost male fertility could be gobbling a handful of walnuts.
“The initial research we conducted regarding walnuts and male fertility found improvement in sperm parameters after adding walnuts to the diet and has set the stage for us to further explore the impacts of walnuts on male fertility and reproductive health,” Professor Wendie Robbins, University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) School of Nursing.
Read: Sleeping naked improves sperm quality
“New projects are underway that we hope to be able to share with you in the near future,” she told PTI.
Infertility and sub-fertility affect a significant proportion of humanity and the burden in men is relatively unknown.
10 Things You Need to Know Before You Become a Sperm Donor
Sperm
1. In August, there was a predictable media hoo-ha when Laura Witjens, chief executive of The National Sperm Bank admitted that since opening their doors eleven months earlier, just nine men had registered as sperm donors.
2. To be fair, although just nine men registered, many more probably tried to volunteer. Sperm donor screening is so rigourous that only one in 10 applicants make it through the testing process.
3. Some men are put off before they even start. Because screening can reveal issues about future fertility, current health and the health of any existing, or future children, men are, quite rightly, advised to think very carefully before they decide to donate sperm.
4. Others are dissuaded by the fact that a donor-conceived child who is born with an abnormality could sue them for damages if it can be proven that they failed to divulge relevant facts about inherited disabilities or physical/mental illnesses that had affected anyone in their family.
5. Inevitably, a percentage of potential donors are rejected because their sperm is poor quality. One in five men aged under 25 have a low sperm count and because sperm quantity and quality decline with age, donors must be aged between 18 and 40.
6. Sperm donation is a time consuming commitment too. Although it only takes about sixty seconds to provide the actual sample, it takes the National Sperm Bank nine months to confirm that it is healthy and viable.
7. That is largely because all sperm donations have to be frozen for six months to quarantine for HIV and Hep B. Because the freezing process kills off a percentage of sperm, even ordinarily acceptable sperm donations may be rendered unusable after the thawing process. To screen for this possibility, all initial sperm samples are frozen and put through a test thaw to ensure that they will survive the quarantine process.
8. If a sperm sample survives this battery of testing, the donor is invited to a second appointment where he is asked to give a blood sample. This is used to determine blood group, to screen for common genetic disorders and to check for sexually transmitted infections. Men may also be required to provide a urine sample and they must permit the clinic to contact their GP to confirm that they are suitable donors. If there are anomalies in the bloods, the clinic will offer support and guidance, but the donor will be rejected.
9. If the screening process is successful, the donor is expected to provide weekly donations for a period of about six months. In return, he receives thirty five quid per donation to cover his time and expenses. Once the six-month quarantine period is over, he is asked to provide some information about himself for registration with the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA). He will also be asked to write something about himself for women who receive his sperm and any children born as a result of their donations.
10. At this, the final furlong, the few good men who haven't succumbed to rejection or exhaustion, may yet decide to quit. In the past, sperm donors were allowed to remain anonymous, but in 2005, the law changed and since then, any children born as a result of sperm or egg donation have a right to identify their genetic parents once they reach the age of 18. Its all very well having an altruistic orgasm over an adult magazine, but the prospect of umpteen adult offspring knocking on your door in 2033, clutching a tattered photocopy of whatever you have bothered to scribble is a very sobering thought. While no one is willing to directly associate the loss of anonymity with the decline in donations, it is telling that nine years after the law changed, the National Sperm Bank was established to try to counter a serious shortage of donor sperm. The National Sperm Bank estimates that it needs 1000 new registered donors every year to meet UK demand so.... only another 991 to find before Christmas. Good luck with that.
1. In August, there was a predictable media hoo-ha when Laura Witjens, chief executive of The National Sperm Bank admitted that since opening their doors eleven months earlier, just nine men had registered as sperm donors.
2. To be fair, although just nine men registered, many more probably tried to volunteer. Sperm donor screening is so rigourous that only one in 10 applicants make it through the testing process.
3. Some men are put off before they even start. Because screening can reveal issues about future fertility, current health and the health of any existing, or future children, men are, quite rightly, advised to think very carefully before they decide to donate sperm.
4. Others are dissuaded by the fact that a donor-conceived child who is born with an abnormality could sue them for damages if it can be proven that they failed to divulge relevant facts about inherited disabilities or physical/mental illnesses that had affected anyone in their family.
5. Inevitably, a percentage of potential donors are rejected because their sperm is poor quality. One in five men aged under 25 have a low sperm count and because sperm quantity and quality decline with age, donors must be aged between 18 and 40.
6. Sperm donation is a time consuming commitment too. Although it only takes about sixty seconds to provide the actual sample, it takes the National Sperm Bank nine months to confirm that it is healthy and viable.
7. That is largely because all sperm donations have to be frozen for six months to quarantine for HIV and Hep B. Because the freezing process kills off a percentage of sperm, even ordinarily acceptable sperm donations may be rendered unusable after the thawing process. To screen for this possibility, all initial sperm samples are frozen and put through a test thaw to ensure that they will survive the quarantine process.
8. If a sperm sample survives this battery of testing, the donor is invited to a second appointment where he is asked to give a blood sample. This is used to determine blood group, to screen for common genetic disorders and to check for sexually transmitted infections. Men may also be required to provide a urine sample and they must permit the clinic to contact their GP to confirm that they are suitable donors. If there are anomalies in the bloods, the clinic will offer support and guidance, but the donor will be rejected.
9. If the screening process is successful, the donor is expected to provide weekly donations for a period of about six months. In return, he receives thirty five quid per donation to cover his time and expenses. Once the six-month quarantine period is over, he is asked to provide some information about himself for registration with the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA). He will also be asked to write something about himself for women who receive his sperm and any children born as a result of their donations.
10. At this, the final furlong, the few good men who haven't succumbed to rejection or exhaustion, may yet decide to quit. In the past, sperm donors were allowed to remain anonymous, but in 2005, the law changed and since then, any children born as a result of sperm or egg donation have a right to identify their genetic parents once they reach the age of 18. Its all very well having an altruistic orgasm over an adult magazine, but the prospect of umpteen adult offspring knocking on your door in 2033, clutching a tattered photocopy of whatever you have bothered to scribble is a very sobering thought. While no one is willing to directly associate the loss of anonymity with the decline in donations, it is telling that nine years after the law changed, the National Sperm Bank was established to try to counter a serious shortage of donor sperm. The National Sperm Bank estimates that it needs 1000 new registered donors every year to meet UK demand so.... only another 991 to find before Christmas. Good luck with that.
Tuesday, October 13, 2015
10 Fun Facts You Didn’t Know About Masturbation
“Hello, sex for one please, and plenty of it.”
Masturbation. A night in for one. Playing with your hand or flicking the bean. Eurgh. Bean.
Whatever you want to call it, you’re aware of it and you probably do it yourself. The history of masturbation isn’t exactly a pleasant one as it used to be considered destructive to living a good and moral lifestyle; so it didn’t just make you a bad person in the eyes of society, but it was also thought to damage your state of mind. All that power in one hand…, Of course, masturbating doesn’t cause you any physical harm (unless you’re a bit too, erm, vigorous) and it most definitely doesn’t mess with your psychological state in the way that the Victorians believed that it did. But don’t worry because it’s common, it doesn’t make you dirty and it’s instinctive behaviour for both men and women.
But here are some fun facts that you might not have known about the act of masturbation.
10. Humans Aren’t The Only Species To Masturbate
2. There’s No Such Thing As ‘Too Much’
When it comes to masturbation, there’s no such thing as right, wrong, too little or too much. As long as you’re healthy, sexually satisfied and confident, then no one is going to tell you to stop or to do it more often. However, the only time it will become a problem is if you feel like you can’t function without doing it. If you find yourself skipping work to pleasure yourself or you’re turning away from your partner to spend more time alone in the bedroom, then you should seek some professional advice.
1. But Back In The Day, It Could Have Killed You
In 1656, you could have been executed if you were caught masturbating. In Connecticut, the New Haven Law meant that if someone else witnessed you participating in this act, then it was up to jurors to decide whether or not you would get to live or die. But in 2013, Miley Cyrus pretty much did it with a rubber glove on stage in front of thousands. How times have changed… Is an orgasm really worth dying for? Probably.
Masturbation. A night in for one. Playing with your hand or flicking the bean. Eurgh. Bean.
Whatever you want to call it, you’re aware of it and you probably do it yourself. The history of masturbation isn’t exactly a pleasant one as it used to be considered destructive to living a good and moral lifestyle; so it didn’t just make you a bad person in the eyes of society, but it was also thought to damage your state of mind. All that power in one hand…, Of course, masturbating doesn’t cause you any physical harm (unless you’re a bit too, erm, vigorous) and it most definitely doesn’t mess with your psychological state in the way that the Victorians believed that it did. But don’t worry because it’s common, it doesn’t make you dirty and it’s instinctive behaviour for both men and women.
But here are some fun facts that you might not have known about the act of masturbation.
10. Humans Aren’t The Only Species To Masturbate
Did you think that you were the only living species on this planet that has needs, sexual needs? Just because you have a conscious, the ability to think rationally and walk and talk, does make you any different from the likes of birds, apes and horses. That’s right, you all have one thing in common: you love to jerk off. Whenever these animals feel like they’re in the mood for some lovin’, they’ll just do it, there and then. They don’t even care if anyone is watching. And that’s definitely the biggest difference between you and these animals; it’s not that you can’t fly, it’s because you don’t like an audience.
9. How Many Times A Month Do People Masturbate On Average?
After looking at a number of recent surveys that people have taken to investigate how many times men and women masturbate in a month, this is the conclusion. Men masturbate more than women and they started at a younger age. Most women didn’t start until their late teens or 20s until they were mature enough for sex in the first place. The reason behind it wasn’t primarily for pleasure wither, it was because they wanted to become more comfortable with their own bodies. So women masturbate on average around 5 times a month, whereas as men find the time to do it around 12. Be honest, you thought those numbers were going to be higher didn’t you?
8. Make Sure You Use Lubrication
The whole point of masturbating is to feel comfortable in your own skin, boost your confidence in the bedroom and to discover what feels good and what doesn’t. Many people don’t even need to orgasm because they’re too busy concentrating on what feels good. However, if you’re using your own saliva as lubricant, it’s probably not the best idea. This is because it can disrupt the bacteria and cause yeast infections.
7. It’s A Form Of Mild Cardio
For women at least, and it’s very, very mild. Your heart rate still increases along with your breathing and you’ll even find yourself sweating. You also know that you can have a guaranteed orgasm without getting pregnant or contracting an STI. But for boys, masturbating is very different to sex, and it’s not because of that one obvious reason. When men ejaculate on their own, their body responds differently to it. They have a lower sperm count and it doesn’t give them the added health benefits of what having sex gives. But there are other health benefits that ‘come’ with this act. It can lower the risk of diabetes, reduce back or leg pain, reduce the risk of a heart attack and it even makes your hair shinier. You’re doing it now aren’t you? All in the name of your health of course…
9. How Many Times A Month Do People Masturbate On Average?
After looking at a number of recent surveys that people have taken to investigate how many times men and women masturbate in a month, this is the conclusion. Men masturbate more than women and they started at a younger age. Most women didn’t start until their late teens or 20s until they were mature enough for sex in the first place. The reason behind it wasn’t primarily for pleasure wither, it was because they wanted to become more comfortable with their own bodies. So women masturbate on average around 5 times a month, whereas as men find the time to do it around 12. Be honest, you thought those numbers were going to be higher didn’t you?
8. Make Sure You Use Lubrication
The whole point of masturbating is to feel comfortable in your own skin, boost your confidence in the bedroom and to discover what feels good and what doesn’t. Many people don’t even need to orgasm because they’re too busy concentrating on what feels good. However, if you’re using your own saliva as lubricant, it’s probably not the best idea. This is because it can disrupt the bacteria and cause yeast infections.
7. It’s A Form Of Mild Cardio
For women at least, and it’s very, very mild. Your heart rate still increases along with your breathing and you’ll even find yourself sweating. You also know that you can have a guaranteed orgasm without getting pregnant or contracting an STI. But for boys, masturbating is very different to sex, and it’s not because of that one obvious reason. When men ejaculate on their own, their body responds differently to it. They have a lower sperm count and it doesn’t give them the added health benefits of what having sex gives. But there are other health benefits that ‘come’ with this act. It can lower the risk of diabetes, reduce back or leg pain, reduce the risk of a heart attack and it even makes your hair shinier. You’re doing it now aren’t you? All in the name of your health of course…
6. The Vibrator Was Invented To Cure Hysteria
Symptoms of hysteria included fainting, anxiety, fatigue, depression and emotional instability. So how were these symptoms treated? By female arousal of course. Doctors would make house calls to women who were suffering from hysteria and would treat this diagnosis by giving them a ‘healing massage.’ That’s right, husbands would pay another man to pleasure their wives and that’s because women were not supposed to enjoy sex or be sexual people. But sexual stimulation was only acceptable if there was a medical reason for it. Seems legit. Of course, not all doctors would use penetration as a way of making their clients orgasm and using their hands all of the time began to tire them out. In comes the vibrator. These magical devices were strictly kept in doctor’s offices for medical purposes only, but then bigger companies started manufacturing them and began to sell them in very subtle advertising spots in women’s magazines. Unfortunately, this treatment didn’t actually cure the hysteria as clients kept on making repeat appointments with their doctors… Hysteria as a disease was eventually made obsolete in the 1950s.
Symptoms of hysteria included fainting, anxiety, fatigue, depression and emotional instability. So how were these symptoms treated? By female arousal of course. Doctors would make house calls to women who were suffering from hysteria and would treat this diagnosis by giving them a ‘healing massage.’ That’s right, husbands would pay another man to pleasure their wives and that’s because women were not supposed to enjoy sex or be sexual people. But sexual stimulation was only acceptable if there was a medical reason for it. Seems legit. Of course, not all doctors would use penetration as a way of making their clients orgasm and using their hands all of the time began to tire them out. In comes the vibrator. These magical devices were strictly kept in doctor’s offices for medical purposes only, but then bigger companies started manufacturing them and began to sell them in very subtle advertising spots in women’s magazines. Unfortunately, this treatment didn’t actually cure the hysteria as clients kept on making repeat appointments with their doctors… Hysteria as a disease was eventually made obsolete in the 1950s.
5. There’s A Reason Why Some Vibrators Look Like A Rabbit
Most women who own a Rampant Rabbit want to explore their sexuality, that’s a given. But it’s also probably because it provides them with a penetrative and clitoral orgasm, but it also looks like a freaking bunny rabbit! Who would have thought that a vibrator could be cute? The Japanese, that’s who. In Japan, it’s illegal to create sex toys that actually look like a penis, so they designed the rabbit vibrator instead and also showed the Japanese government their middle finger at the same time.
4. People Don’t Tend To Remember The Last Time They Masturbated
4. People Don’t Tend To Remember The Last Time They Masturbated
Unless it was last night or two minutes ago, can you really remember the last time that you had a party for one? However, this is more common with men as it is with women because every time a man ejaculates, they lose vital neurochemicals involved with concentration and memory. Having said that, the other reason that people don’t tend to remember the last time that they jerked off can potentially be attributed to the thought process that masturbation is still seen as taboo and inappropriate. They might not even own up to it. But still, it’s not like everyone marks the calendar after they’ve gotten a little bit frisky with themselves.
3. It Will Make You Better And More Confident In Bed
And not just with yourself. Many people get offended if their partner masturbates, but sometimes you just need to feel comfortable in your own skin. And because you’re able to figure out what you like, you’re able to tell your partner too, making it a much more enjoyable experience when you’re in bed together. You’ll also know your limits and it will eventually make you more comfortable having sex in the long term.
3. It Will Make You Better And More Confident In Bed
And not just with yourself. Many people get offended if their partner masturbates, but sometimes you just need to feel comfortable in your own skin. And because you’re able to figure out what you like, you’re able to tell your partner too, making it a much more enjoyable experience when you’re in bed together. You’ll also know your limits and it will eventually make you more comfortable having sex in the long term.
2. There’s No Such Thing As ‘Too Much’
When it comes to masturbation, there’s no such thing as right, wrong, too little or too much. As long as you’re healthy, sexually satisfied and confident, then no one is going to tell you to stop or to do it more often. However, the only time it will become a problem is if you feel like you can’t function without doing it. If you find yourself skipping work to pleasure yourself or you’re turning away from your partner to spend more time alone in the bedroom, then you should seek some professional advice.
1. But Back In The Day, It Could Have Killed You
In 1656, you could have been executed if you were caught masturbating. In Connecticut, the New Haven Law meant that if someone else witnessed you participating in this act, then it was up to jurors to decide whether or not you would get to live or die. But in 2013, Miley Cyrus pretty much did it with a rubber glove on stage in front of thousands. How times have changed… Is an orgasm really worth dying for? Probably.
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